’90 Day Fiance’: Asuelu Pulaa Ditched Kalani Faagata in the Bedroom

90 Day Fiance star Kalani Faagata reveals she and Asuelu Pulaa sleep in separate rooms on Happily Ever After. She speaks to her sister, Kolini Faagata, about the current state of her marriage. It seems like there is no magic happening between Kalani and Asuelu.

90 Day Fiance: Kalani Faagata Opens up about Marriage

Kalani Faagata’s relationship with Asuelu Pulaa has been far from perfect. The 90 Day Fiance cast member has contemplated splitting from her husband. But, since they share two children, she didn’t want to give up on him. In the current season of Happily Ever After, Asuelu told Kalani that he’s changed. Yet, it appears there are still issues between the two.

In the upcoming episode of 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After, Kalani Faagata opens up to her sister, Kolini Faagata, about her marriage. She tells Kolini that she feels like she is living with a friend and not a husband. She also compares her relationship to Asuelu Pulaa as having a roommate with benefits. However, Kalani doesn’t even believe there are any benefits. Romance seems to be suffering between the two.

90 Day Fiance: Kalani Faagata - Kolini Faagata - Happily Ever After

Kalani and Asuelu Pulaa Not Sleeping Together

Kalani Faagata then tells her sister, Kolini Faagata, that she and Asuelu Pulaa no longer sleep in the same bed. The 90 Day Fiance reality star reveals that she hasn’t told anyone about her and Asuelu’s bedroom arrangement. Kolini is the first person she has told that Asuelu stays in his game room every night. According to Kalani, she didn’t realize it was a problem until she spoke to her sister about it.

The 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After cast member feels that in a marriage, “you just get used to things.” So, Kalani Faagata never thought to question why her hubby, Asuelu Pulaa, is sleeping in a different room. But, now she seems to be realizing that there is a problem. She says that “it just sucks.” Kalani tries to do what she can for Asuelu. But, it seems like it’s not reciprocated.

90 Day Fiance: Kalani Faagata - Asuelu Pulaa - Happily Ever After

90 Day Fiance Celeb Says She’s ‘Mommying’ Husband

Kalani Faagata struggles with the fact that her marriage doesn’t feel like a relationship. She sees that Asuelu Pulaa has made many changes, and she knows that she should be happy about it. But, Kalani explains that she and Asuelu don’t even go on dates anymore. They also don’t have alone time. And, on top of that, they go to separate beds at the end of the day.

The 90 Day Fiance TLC star believes that it is partly her fault for how her and Asuelu Pulaa’s marriage is. Kalani Faagata believes that Asuelu doesn’t know the meaning of what “real love” is. According to her, he didn’t see it from his parents. So, Kalani feels that she has to teach him things since he is the father of her children. But, that is where her romantic connection with him dies. She says, “you can’t have a romantic relationship with someone you’re mommying.”

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