’90 Day Fiance’: Too Much, Too Soon for Amanda Wilhelm & Razvan Ciocoi on ‘Before the 90 Days’

Season 6 of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days, has begun with almost all new couples! A connection from TikTok flourished when Amanda Wilhelm tipped Razvan Ciocoi with a digital rose. Four months later, Amanda is ready to travel from the United States to meet Razvan for the first time, in his home country of Romania.

But this is not a typical whirlwind reality romance. Amanda is recently widowed with two young children. Her love interest is a social media star who may not be ready for a family life. Fans have already expressed concern that all of this could be a case of too much, too soon.

90 Day Fiance: Razvan Ciocoi is a TikTok Star?

Razvan Ciocoi is a model, actor, and fitness enthusiast outside of 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days. The sexy influencer has 23.6k followers and counting. One follower called Razvan a “thirst trap.” Dancing, comedy, and workout tips are what the majority of his TikTok videos focus on.

But, according to Amanda, Razvan does a “little bit of everything in entertainment.” He’s been acting in theater for years and recently has been trying to get more work in films and start his music career. It also comes out that Razvan’s job even includes a little stripping. Clearly, he enjoys the spotlight.

This fame and fandom has created its share of problems for the couple. Feelings of jealousy and insecurity from Amanda have caused them to break up multiple times in just 4 months.

 It’s hard to imagine Razvan giving up his public lifestyle to settle down with Amanda and her kids in Louisiana. Its only been the first episode, but it doesn’t seem like he will be making a career change anytime soon.

Before the 90 Days: Amanda Wilhelm’s Husband Died Suddenly from Cancer

Before meeting Razvan, Amanda was married to Jason Wilhelm. Eight years into their marriage, Jason was diagnosed with Stage 4 terminal ampullary cancer. Three days later, Amanda forced a very weak Jason to go to the hospital, and just 10 days after his diagnosis, he passed away.

In that short time the couple did discuss Amanda’s future. “When Jason was sick, he had told me he wanted me to find love again and move on. He was like, ‘It’s not fair for you to live your life alone,” she explained. “I told [Razvan] early on that I was a widow, and he truly has been someone that I can lean on.”

However, Amanda acknowledged: “I do feel some guilt being with [him] so soon after my husband’s death. I know that he could never replace Jason, but we’ve started to form this really deep connection.” Her husband has been gone less than a year. Her family is concerned as well that she is in such an intense relationship so quickly after Jason’s passing.

“I just hope she knows the difference between filling a void and what’s real,” her concerned sister Amber explained in an interview. In what she has said herself, Amanda is in need emotional support from someone right now. Will that become too overwhelming for her social media superstar.

90 Day Fiance: Amanda is Hoping for Marriage Proposal on Trip to Romania

The 90 Day Fiance, star is now preparing for her trip to Romania to visit Razvan Ciocoi. Amanda and Razvan video chat and talk about her children. Razvan said he was excited to meet the kids, and she asked him how he feels about being “the other adult in [the kids’] lives,” questioning if he’d be ready for that.

She is already asking him to assume some kind of parental role. While Razvan, mentioned he would like to be “a friend” to the children. Once again, the two don’t seem to be on the same page.

We hear Amanda and Razvan say “I love you.” But more outrageously, Amanda suggests Razvan Ciocoi might propose if her visit goes well. Her sister Amber says this idea is “crazy.” Fans may have been yelling the same thing to their TV’s.

Four months is a very short time and they have never met in person. Obviously, there is a lot riding on this trip. Have these two created a strong enough foundation to take such a huge step.

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