90 Day Fiance: Sarper Guven Demands Shekinah Garner to Change

Sarper Guven from 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way controls how Shekinah Garner lives. But she doesn’t find anything wrong with it. Yet, fans find it concerning.

90 Day Fiance: Sarper Guven & Shekinah Garner Happy Together

Sarper Guven has been showing his controlling side from the very beginning. When Shekinah Garner moved to Turkey to be with him, it didn’t take him long to pull out the scale. He wanted to see if she had reached his target weight for her. They were both surprised when she was a couple of pounds off.

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The 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way couple sit down at the reunion special to give an update on their relationship. She claims that their relationship is “great.” She also thinks it is the “best relationship” she’s ever been in. He then tells her not to talk about other relationships she’s been in.

Sarper reveals that he is no longer weighing Shekinah. The TLC star says that she is “in a good form” now. He admits to being a “control freak.” He wants her to eat what he wants. However, she feels he is “excited to have someone who is submissive.”

Sarper Tells Shekinah How to Live

Shekinah is in a different country than Sarper because she is filming the reunion show. However, he still controls what she eats and how she dresses. She reveals that he sent her voice messages telling her how to behave, how to look, and what to eat. She feels that the way he says these things to her is “loving and it’s endearing.”

The 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way cast member plays a voice message from him telling her how she should do her makeup and how she should sit up straight. He also tells her that she shouldn’t eat “too much carbs” for lunch. He even tells her that if they give her options, she needs to send them to him, and he will choose for her.

Shekinah feels that he is giving her good advice. She doesn’t think he’s being unreasonable. The TLC star looks at him like her leader. She says, “he’s leading us.”

However, Sarper feels that she likes to be controlled. And he likes to be controlling. So they think that they are the perfect match.

90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Fans Find Relationship Concerning

Shekinah Garner calling Sarper Guven her leader didn’t sit well with viewers. Many people feel that he is controlling her too much. One person says that “he’s not leading. He’s controlling her.” Another person thinks there is a “difference between taking charge and being controlling. They find it concerning.

However, some 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way viewers feel that Sarper isn’t acting like a “cult leader.” Shekinah grew up Amish. So, many people don’t find it surprising that she is looking for someone to control her. One person says she is used to being “brainwashed.”

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