90 Day Fiance: Can Dempsey Sage Away Statler’s Past on Before The 90 Days? – Recap [S06E09]

On 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days, Dempsey Wilkinson sages her living space as well as her girlfriend Statler Riley‘s private parts. David Dangerfield deals with tragedy as Sheila‘s mom dies after a fall in the home. Christian tries to do better with Cleo but seems hesitant to be intimate. Riley and Violet play games and block each other after their fight. And Jasmine Pineda picks an odd time to inform Gino Palazzolo, she fakes it in bed. Let’s break it all down in this recap of Season 6, Episode 9 The Big Chill.

90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days: Dempsey Wilkinson Shames Statler Riley

On 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days, Dempsey Wilkinson lights up some sage to cleanse her caravan. She also waves the sage near Statler Riley’s private parts. And suggests they need cleansed from the action they’ve seen. Statler takes offense.

And says she’s not ashamed of her amorous adventures. Dempsey Wilkinson is bummed that Statler seems uncomfortable in her home.

Dempsey Wilkinson reveals that she lost a sister at a young age. And that her childhood was spent traveling from place to place to set up carnivals. Dempsey enjoys living and working on the farm.

It’s really quite beautiful and a place where people stay in small rentals made of storage containers converted into cute spaces for staycations. Statler complains while Dempsey goes to gather wood.

The 90 Day Fiance couple live very different lifestyles. Statler is hoping to shack up with Dempsey in the caravan. But finds it confining and cold. She also thinks Dempsey may have cheated on her in Thailand. Dempsey strongly denies this.

Later She takes Statler Riley to meet her best friend and boss Ben. He thinks Dempsey Wilkinson seems happy. But is surprised they moved so fast in the bedroom.

Tragedy for David Dangerfield and Sheila

In an unspeakable turn of events on 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days, Sheila’s mother dies in tragic accident hours after meeting David Dangerfield. The couple woke up to find that she had fallen on the steps that weren’t nailed down properly.

David tries to comfort Sheila as best as he can. She is overwhelmed with her grief. She will stay with her mom’s body for 24 hours which is custom.

David attends the funeral. The family and friends follow the casket to a graveyard in a parade like fashion. David doesn’t know what to do or say to comfort Sheila. She admits to being physically and mentally exhausted by all of it.

The couple will stay at David’s hotel. Sheila doesn’t want to be in the house just yet. And worries that she can’t give her attention to David while trying to process her mom’s unexpected passing.

Christian Says He Doesn’t Like to Make the First Move

90 Day Fiance couple Christian and Cleo didn’t get off to a great start. Christian wanted to party in a crowded bar. He chatted up several girls at a nearby table. And left Cleo out. They cut the night short and went home.

The couple are off to explore an open air market in hopes of connecting. Christian buys Cleo a tigers eye bracelet. They hit up a cafe for some fish and chips. And Cleo explains her frustration with his behavior.

To make amends Christian plans a chill night in with some wine and a virtual reality headset. Cleo loves the headset. It’s time for bed and Cleo seems open to more than just sleep. She suggests that there is obviously an attraction between them.

Christian seems uncomfortable and suggests he usually prefers for the woman to make the first move. Cleo doubts his honesty. In the past he presented himself as forward and flirty. She feels insecure.

90 Day Fiance: Riley and Violet Play Juvenile Games

Riley and Violet have blocked each others numbers. The TLC couple had a blowout on their dinner date. Violet didn’t appreciate being interrogated by Riley’s close friend Tiffanie. She stormed off.

And Riley declared he was done. Violet sent a text suggesting Riley should’ve stood up for her. Violet takes her daughter shopping to destress. And confides the details of the fight. She thinks he should apologize.

On 90 Day Fiance, Riley calls up a tour guide to explore Ho Chi Minh City by motorbike. He’s a little scared in the traffic at first, but soon relaxes and enjoys the ride.

He and his guide Tommy stop at a bar where they have a drink and Riley enjoys a cigar. Riley tells Tommy what happened and the guide takes Violet’s side. He tells Riley he needs to apologize and unblock Violet. Riley admits he handled things the wrong way.

90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days: Jasmine Admits to Faking It with Gino

The crazy continues with Jasmine Pineda and Gino Palazzolo. The pair head to a jewelry store to buy a gift for Jasmine’s sister who’s having a birthday. After picking out a necklace, Jasmine suggests they look at rings.

Gino points out that she already has a ring. She says she lost it. And admits to wearing the ring her ex husband gave her. Gino says he’ll buy a ring once her visa is approved. She demands he hire an immigration attorney and they argue.

Gino storms off on 90 Day Fiance. Jasmine cries yet again. They decide to put the focus on making a nice birthday for her sister Liz. They rent a bike and they start having fun. But Jasmine Pineda brings up Gino’s lack of skill in the bedroom.

And admits she’s faked it all 7 times. Gino Palazzolo sneaks off and buys a promise ring from a street vendor. He gifts Jasmine the ring and promises to give her the meat more often. So much for keeping the focus on the birthday girl. Till next time!

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