90 Day Fiance alum Kalani Faagata vented about her frustration on Asuelu Pulaa. Kalani, the mother of two, did not hold back in expressing her thoughts on certain issues she’s dealing with life at home. In particular, Kalani opened up about her role in her family and how Asuelu doesn’t seem to contribute equally.
90 Day Fiance Update: Kalani Faagata Dismayed By Asuelu Pulaa’s Actions
Looks like Kalani Faagata has had enough of Asuelu Pulaa’s laid back attitude. The 90 Day Fiance celeb took to Instagram earlier this week and vented out her frustrations about her husband’s lack of cooperation. In a lengthy post, Kalani sarcastically asked her followers if it’s normal for wives to do almost all the chores at home while the husbands do little to none.
“Do all husbands expect their wives to pay bills, clean the whole house, do all the laundry, feed/watch the kids 24/7 (unless husband is in public or wants a selfie)? Asking for my god**** self,” Kalani ranted.
Although Kalani did not specifically mention Asuelu, it doesn’t take a genius to know that she’s actually referring to her 90 Day Fiance husband. Is Asuelu Pulaa a lazy husband? Or is it just another cultural conflict?
Kalani On Gender Role In The Family
As expected, Kalani Faagata’s post drew mixed reactions online. Most agree that it’s not normal for wives to shoulder everything. But, some think it’s typical of roles genders have historically played. However, in Kalani’s situation, she’s both mother and breadwinner, unlike families in the past. But the 90 Day Fiance star is not having any of it. In another post, Asuelu Pulaa’s wife shared her two cents about the issue.
Kalani Faagata reiterated that married women who do everything on their own are literally a “married single mom”. Kalani also pointed out that just because someone was born a woman doesn’t mean she should do all the work at home.
90 Day Fiance: Kalani Wants Equality For Men And Women
Kalani Faagata also says that for the longest time, many people believe that men are “incapable of contributing to the household”. The wife of Asuelu Pulaa believes such stigma needs to change for the sake of the younger generation of women.
“You want your daughters to grow up and be someone’s servant solely because they don’t have testicles?” the 90 Day Fiance wife added.
In the end, Kalani shared a witty message to her followers who experience the same thing. “In conclusion, I hope y’all sex is fire, ‘cause I see no other point in raising a grown a** man that someone else didn’t finish raising,” she wrote.
Is Asuelu A Lazy Husband?
Many are now wondering what Asuelu Pulaa has done for Kalani Faagata to be dismayed like that. Based on Kalani’s statement, Asuelu seems to be slacking off a bit lately. This is a serious matter, considering they already have two children to raise.
Fans of 90 Day Fiance are now questioning if Asuelu is a lazy spouse. In the past, the couple dealt with similar issues. She even doubted Asuelu’s ability to take care of their son with his child-like behavior.
If Kalani’s claims are true, then Asuelu should re-assess his role in their family. It’s about time for the Samoa native to step up to the plate and be a real man for the family.
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