Real Housewives Of New York City Flirting Styles Unveiled: 50 Shades Of RHONY Sexy

Real Housewives Of New York City (RHONY) cast members are known for talking about sex, with the producers even sharing sexy glimpses. The recent RHONY episode featuring the ladies experimenting with speed dating was a delight. The Real Housewives Of New York stars showed their flirting skills. As for their determination to get their man? Thank you, Ramona Singer, for your entertaining pursuit of the “guy in the red scarf.”

RHONY Stars’ Flirting Styles: Oh, Ramona Singer

To analyze each Real Housewives Of New York City‘s flirting styles, Bravo TV‘s Personal Space talked with the host of the speed dating event. Rori Sassoon created the elite matchmaking service, Platinum Poire. This dating expert shared her thoughts on the good, the bad, and the strange flirting methods of each cast member.

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When it comes to Ramona, Singer ranks as the RHONY star who gives mixed messages with her flirting style. Playing with her hair and incessantly batting those famous crazy eyes, the Real Housewives Of New York star has “two sides,” says Rori. Ramona enjoyed married life, until it abruptly ended (not her decision). Dating presents challenges for Singer, who is “way too loud and clear,” according to the matchmaking expert.

“She comes off like someone who is used to being married,” admits Rori. “Give a guy a little more of a challenge. Be a little mysterious. You’ve got to play the game.”

On the plus side for Ramona: She’s gorgeous and in shape.

Real Housewives Of New York City‘s Skinnygirl Is A Funny Flirt

Bethenny Frankel is known more for her wit than her warmth. At the speed dating event, the Skinnygirl founder made some “sexually suggestive” remarks to one of the man, for example. Rori noted that it’s great that Bethenny is “funny, witty, and speaks the truth.”

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However, the initial phase of dating (especially speed dating) isn’t the time or place to be what Sassoon calls “hyper-sexual.” This matchmaking guru recommends that Frankel save that side of her for her relationships. Moreover, she warns that “being funny and sarcastic can emasculate the crap out of men.”

So what do men really want? Guys like “femininity,” sums up Rori. She suggests that Bethenny brings enhance her flirting style by emphasizing her “feminine side.” On the plus side, Frankel has “great tits and ass,” adds Sassoon.

Real Housewives Of New York City Sultry Ladies: Hello, Dorinda Medley and Sonja Morgan

Even though Dorinda Medley is in a relationship, her flirting style offers some tips for those seeking to put a RHONY spin on their own romantic life. Sassoon pointed out Dorinda’s expert flirting techniques.

“[Dorinda] knows how to share, she knows give and take in her relationship and it’s not all about her. Straight men don’t want to be emasculated and she knows how to massage the ego.”

As for Sonja Morgan, Rori recommends that the Real Housewives Of New York City star seek a man who loves her for who she is. Sonja enjoys acting “a bit outrageous.” Consequently, Morgan won’t do well with a man who feels shocked by her antics, advises Sassoon.

And Sonja definitely has some winning ways when it comes to flirting. The RHONY star “knows how to make a man feel good,” added Rori. “She can stir the ego, she is attentive and fun.”

Carole Radziwill And Tinsley Mortimer: RHONY Flirts Reality Check

Sassoon has some strong advice for Carole Radziwill and Tinsley Mortimer. This dating guru recommends that Carole, known for dating a boy toy, change her man hunt style.

“Carole is level-headed, grounded, extremely dateable as long she’s dating more age appropriate men — and I told that to her,” says Rori bluntly. “A younger guy has more of an expiration date.”

With her “smart, witty, humble” personality, Radziwill “brings so much to the table,” points out Sassoon. So this Real Housewives star just needs to find a man worthy of her own “class act.”

And then there’s Tinsley. Sigh. As my Southern grandmother would say, “Don’t shop for the wedding dress until you’ve found a man to match.”

For those who winced at the episode showing Mortimer going gaga over wedding dresses without a date to walk down the aisle, Rori sympathizes. The matchmaking maestro notes that Tinsley is one contradictory woman.

“She commented how she’s a Southern belle, and wants to be courted,” says Rori. “But at the end of the day she made out with Scott on their first date. She wants to be married. She was trying on wedding dresses. You don’t need to seem desperate, you just want to be married to the right person.”

Real Housewives Of New York City Star Luann de Lesseps: What’s Next?

Among all the RHONY stars, Countess Luann de Lesseps is going through the biggest challenges right now. She’s been in and out of rehab after her shocking arrest. As for Luann’s flirting style? Sassoon is gentle in analyzing the Countess.

“Luann really needs to date herself right now, she needs to learn herself,” advises Rori. “She really needs to stick to her new life and needs to be with someone who knows about her past and accepts her.”

And ultimately, Sassoon’s advice for de Lesseps applies to all the Real Housewives Of New York City stars. These RHONY ladies “want to be in a relationship but don’t do their due diligence,” points out Rori. Remember, girls: Beware the risks of getting involved with (gulp) Tom!

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Joanne Eglash

Joanne has a B.A. in English lit from UCLA and edited the school newspaper. Since then, she's written on a wide array of topics and now focuses on entertainment. Her hobbies include hiking, games, and entertaining her cat.