90 Day Fiance star Michael Ilesanmi, Angela Deem’s husband, doesn’t plan on marrying more wives. In his culture, the wife must submit to the husband and give them children. However, Michael is married to an American who isn’t submissive and can’t tote a baby. So, would Michael marry another woman to have a baby and make his family happy?
90 Day Fiance: Michael Ilesanmi Argues with Angela Deem over Baby Plans
In Michael Ilesanmi’s culture, having a biological child is very important. But due to his wife’s age, having a baby would be difficult. However, Angela Deem told him they would figure out a way to make it happen. So, Michael agreed to marry her. Now, they’re officially husband and wife, a baby is a hot topic of conversation.
Michael and Angela both hope her daughter Skyla will donate an egg. But, Skyla isn’t on board with that idea. During the 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After Tell All, Michael Ilesanmi’s aunt Lydia brought up the thought of allowing him to have a baby with another woman.
His auntie said they accepted Angela contingent on her giving Michael a child. Then, Angela said she won’t let him “screw another woman” and then expect her to “take care” of his child with another woman. However, Michael Ilesanmi clarified he wouldn’t have a baby with someone else. But, the 90 Day Fiance husband hoped he and Angela could try IVF or adoption.
Angela and Aunt Lydia Clash over Cultural Differences
Angela Deem and Lydia started to clash over the differences in their cultures. Michael Ilesanmi’s auntie told Angela that she must submit to her husband. 90 Day Fiance viewers know how Angela feels about that. Then, Lydia insisted submitting is a big part of the Nigerian culture.
But, Angela said that she is an American and won’t have someone tell her what to do. She also said on the 90 Day Fiance Tell All that Lydia should respect American culture. The Georgia-based reality star got upset when she saw her husband’s aunt smirking at her during the Happily Ever After Tell All.
Angry Angela Deem walked away while saying her famous words, “I’m done.” She also didn’t like that Michael Ilesanmi didn’t stand up for her. She said that Michael acts differently when he’s around his family than when he is with her. And the 90 Day Fiance meemaw doesn’t like that.
90 Day Fiance’s Michael Not Looking for More Wives
Michael Ilesanmi made it clear that he isn’t looking for another wife. Marrying more than one wife is common in his culture. But, he said he only wants one spouse. So, Angela Deem doesn’t have to worry about her hubby making babies with someone else.
However, if Angela can’t give him a child, his family may pressure him to find another wife, even though that’s not what Michael says he wants. The 90 Day Fiance cast member has experience when it comes to having multiple spouses. Michael Ilesanmi’s late father had three wives.
But, that is not the lifestyle he wants for himself. He said that he sees “one wife is one problem. Two wives is two problems.” And he doesn’t want to deal with that. Michael said that it’s “better just to stick to one.” Michael Ilesanmi said “it’s not easy” having several wives – and Angela’s probably all he can handle.
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