90 Day Fiance: The Other Way star Deavan Clegg opened up about a dark chapter in her life. The American wife of Jihoon Lee talked about her abusive relationship with Drascilla’s biological father. Deavan has been getting a lot of questions about the topic, prompting her to finally address it once and for all.
Deavan Clegg, the TLC celeb, did not hold back, sharing her experiences. Read on to find out more.
90 Day Fiance: Deavan Clegg Recalls Nightmare Relationship With Drascilla’s Dad
Deavan Clegg finally broke her silence on Drascilla’s father. The 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way celeb revealed some details about her past, which she has kept private for a long time. Deavan talked about her abusive past, which allegedly happened when she was only 17 years old.
Deavan said she met her ex (whom she nicknamed “Tom” for legal purposes) through a common friend. After a week of constant texting and hanging out, they officially became a couple. Things progressed quite quickly for Deavan Clegg and her then-boyfriend. They moved in together a few weeks later. That’s when she supposedly started seeing red flags.
According to Deavan Clegg, she discovered that Tom was using drugs and rarely went to work. She said he kept on asking her for money, adding that she had to work longer hours just to cover their expenses.
Deavan said things got worse when he started getting jealous of Deavan Clegg’s ex-boyfriends.
Deavan Says Jealous Ex Pretended To Be Her and ‘Sexted’ Men
Deavan Clegg claimed “Tom” was an “extremely jealous” person. The 90 Day Fiance alum claims that ther ex, Tom, took control over her life to a point where she could not even visit her parents. She added that jealousy triggered the other side of “Tom”.
Deavan said the first sign of physical abuse happened when he learned about her previous relationships. She says he “fake sexted” her past boyfriends and pretended to be her.
She claims that when he saw the replies he went ballistic.
Deavan Clegg said he got so jealous that he allegedly slammed her head on a laptop, spit on her face and called her names. She said the abuse got worse six months later, which led to her decision to leave.
However, it didn’t take long for her to reconcile after Tom supposedly “begged” her to take him back. The cycle continued until she realized it’s not going anywhere.
90 Day Fiance Star Shares How She Got Out
Deavan Clegg was pregnant when she decided to ditch Tom, the father of her child. The 90 Day Fiance cast member said she weighed her options and thought it’s best to give him another chance. But Deavan says that Tom did not change his ways and only got even worse.
Deavan Clegg shared that their worst fight was when he back-handed her and placed a king-size mattress on top of her while pregnant with Drascilla. He then allegedly ran into the bathroom and grabbed a knife. She added that he threatened to kill himself and faked call the police to make her feel bad. That’s what prompted her to leave for good.
Deavan Explains Why She Has Full Custody of Drascilla
Deavan Clegg also explained how she got full custody of her daughter Drascilla. The 90 Day Fiance celebrity revealed she got a restraining order against him. She also said he did not show up to court, which resulted in losing his custody rights.
She claims that “Tom” nor his family ever reached out to meet Drascilla. In the end, she encourages those who suffer the same fate to seek help.
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