’90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’: Avery Warner Claims Ex-husband Spreads Rumors

90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days star Avery Warner talked about her daughter and ex-husband. She gives her side about why her oldest daughter is not on the show. And, claims that her ex is spreading lies about her.

As she says on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, Avery is a mother of two daughters. However, only her youngest daughter is on the show. So, fans were curious as to the reasoning behind it. Avery Warner tells her side and tries to shed some light.

90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days – Avery Warner Lost Fight For Full Custody

Avery Warner says she has two very different co-parenting experiences with her children’s dads. Her firstborn is from her first marriage. Avery said that “unfortunately, I don’t have the best relationship with her father. I’ve never had.”

90 Day Fiance‘s Avery Warner said that they had a very “volatile marriage.” This is the reason why she left. But, she is thankful for having “such an amazing relationship with my youngest daughter’s father.”

During the divorce process, the 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days castmate says she had a rough time. Avery Warner said she had to go to court for three and a half years to fight for parenting rights for her oldest kid. She says she lost  because she was single parent who didn’t have a lot of money. However, her ex was also a single parent. He was also 8-years older than Avery and may have been able to provide a more stable home.

Was The Dad More Stable During the Divorce?

A look at public records for Avery shows she had a few run-ins with the law just before her divorce. Things like alcohol possession while under 21 and driving with a suspended license. Plus, all 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days fans know that Avery loves to use and bake with weed. While legal in Washington state today, it was not at the time of her divorce.

In a video Avery Warner put out, she makes it sound like she lost custody entirely. But, she says that she did not win “full custody” of her oldest daughter. Which sounds like she did win joint custody but was not happy with the decision.

She said that her ex “had a lot of money”, so by not getting full custody, she probably lost out on child support as the child is now raised by the father.


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Oldest Child Is Not On 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days

Avery Warner lashed out at her ex and said “he’s just not a happy person inside.” She claims that it “pains him to see that I live a life that is joyful and happy.”

The 90 Day Fiance celeb claims the reason why she never shows any picture of her other kid on the internet is because her husband will attack her online if she posts pictures.

However, that is not entirely true. Avery Warner does post pictures of both her daughters online. Her last picture was posted on January 1st, New Years Day. The more likely reason why pictures of her daughter are blurred on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days is because the father would not give consent.

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Avery Claims Her Ex-Husband Spreading Lies

Avery Warner claims that her former husband posted some things online and said they were “the truths about Avery Warner.” She said that “they’re just information that he puts out there that is completely false.”

While Avery wouldn’t say what had been posted, list below was posted online and matches Avery’s description.

90 Day Fiance: The Truths About Avery Warner


The list said that “Avery has never been a part of her oldest daughter’s life.” Other than, “more than a few visits per year with no calls in between”. The post says that Avery is allowed to see and visit her daughter, but chooses not to.

The one thing that stands out is that Avery doesn’t post many pics of her daughter online, but she did post a picture of her with her daughter on New Years Day. And, that aligns with what was posted – that it was one of the few times she’s seen her daughter.

About Avery’s Ex Husband

Avery’s ex used to post a lot of pictures of himself with his daughter. He is a lawyer in Washington state and seems to be very devoted to his daughter. When 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days started to air he seems to have closed his Instagram account and stopped posting on his other social media accounts. This could be in an attempt to shield his daughter from the negative publicity that comes with reality TV.

He has 3 bachelor degrees (in law, business, and economics), a masters degree in Business Administration, and Doctorate degree in Jurisprudence. Her ex also volunteers for several charitable organizations and is involved in a business that gives 100% of their profits to charities. He is also on the board of directors for a “feed the homeless” organization.

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