’90 Day Fiance’: Asuelu Pulaa’s Sister Tammy Money-Hungry or Just Misunderstood?

90 Day Fiance star Asuelu Pulaa is caught in the middle between his two clashing families. The TLC celeb’s mother, Lesina, and sister Tammy Acosta have been asking him for money. Fans say she is, showing no concern to his two little kids. His wife, Kalani Faagata, is not happy abouts it, and she’s making herself clear to her in-laws.

90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After Kalani Faagata Clashes With Asuelu Pulaa’s Sister Over Money

It looks like the drama between Kalani Faagata and her husband Asuelu Pulaa’s family is still far from being over. The 90 Day Fiance mama is standing her ground of not letting her in-laws take more money from her husband. Kalani is adamant that she and Asuelu’s children must come first before anyone else.

On Sunday’s 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After episode, Kalani took matters into her own hands and met with Asuelu’s mom and sister. The mother and daughter tandem ganged up on Kalani, still insisting Asuelu give his mother money. Tammy even called Kalani “lazy” for not working a full-time job so they can have more money to send to them.

Tammy also accused the 90 Day Fiance star of controlling Asuelu. By this point, Kalani is over her in-laws. Her hopes of settling their money dispute nearly ended in a brawl, with Tammy Acosta threatening she’ll beat her up.

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Who Is Tammy Acosta?

It seems Asuelu Pulaa’s mom and siblings are digging themselves into a deeper hole each new episode of 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After. Their attitude towards Kalani Faagata has been frowned by many. But what stood out the most was Tammy’s sense of entitlement and feisty behavior. So who exactly is Tammy Acosta?

Apparently, Asuelu’s fierce sister has been living in America years before he moved in with Kalani. Tammy is happily married to a man named Erik Acosta. The couple has two children together. It seems 90 Day Fiance star Tammy enjoys her family life in America.

Despite having a family of her own to support, Tammy says she still sends money to her relatives back in Samoa.

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90 Day Fiance: Is Tammy Really in the Wrong?

Tammy Acosta’s money-hungry image on the show angered some viewers of of 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After. They think she and her mom, Lesina, are wrong for asking money from Asuelu Pulaa. Many also find them insensitive for not showing compassion to Kalani Faagata’s sons.

But is Tammy and her family really at fault on 90 Day Fiance? For Asuelu Pulaa’s culture, sending money to his mother is expected. According to Samoa News, it is quite normal in Samoan culture for an adult to provide for the elderly even after marriage. Their culture does not have retirement plans the same as they United States. So, it’s up to the children to provide for their elders.

The source added that they have to take care of the elders and if they aren’t, it brings a “great deal of shame” to the whole clan. It seems the pressure from society plays a huge role in this kind of attitude. So, it is why Tammy asks her brother Asuelu to kick in the same way she does.

Will TLC’s Kalani be able to accept it’s part of her husband’s culture? Only time will tell.

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