90 Day Fiance star Anfisa Arkhipchenko admits that she struggles with insecurities. With her husband Jorge Nava away serving two and a half years in prison, Anfisa shares that she no longer wants to pretend that everything is perfect. She took to social media to let fans know that it would be a lie if she said that negative comments don’t get to her. She admits that they do. These comments have turned her into someone that she is not. She refrains from posting often online in fear that people will point out her flaws.
90 Day Fiance – Anfisa Arkhipchenko No Longer Herself Without Jorge Nava
During her appearance on 90 Day Fiance, Jorge Nava’s wife, Anfisa Arkhipchenko, had a persona that didn’t care about other people’s opinions of her. She came across as someone who did whatever she wanted. The show made her seem selfish. Many viewers believed that she was with Jorge because of his money. However, Jorge did not have all the money that he portrayed to have.
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I would lie if I said negative comments don't ever get to me. They do. And I feel like lately I've been turning from outspoken honest person into somebody else. I've been trying to be a people's pleaser(which I've never been before). I've been feeling anxious in public thinking that everybody is looking at me and judging me. I don't post much on Instagram and YouTube because I think: "who cares about what I have to say?" or "thats not something people want to see" or "I have a pimple/broken nail/(insert another little imperfection) so I won't make a video because somebody will surely point it out". As I am writing this out now it seems funny and stupid but all these thoughts have really been giving me so much anxiety. And it made me so exhausted. I'm finally coming to realizing that it can't be like that anymore and something has to change. First step to solving a problem is acknowledging it, right? That's why I'm sharing all this with you. I sometimes get messages from people saying that they admire how I deal with all the struggles but the truth is, I have my bad days/weeks when I just don't know what to do. I don't want to pretend to be perfect and like I got my sh*t together when I don't. Maybe some of you are going through similar struggles and I just wanted to remind you (and myself) that it's ok to not be ok. ❤️
Now Anfisa Arkhipchenko feels like she is turning into someone that she is not. She is no longer an outspoken person. She confesses that she has turned into a “people pleaser.” Something that she was never before. Anfisa never used to care about what other people thought about her.
Worries About Public Appearance
Being in the public eye is never easy. Constantly feeling like you are being judged is not a good feeling. On TLC’s 90 Day Fiance, Anfisa came across as someone who only cared about her looks. She would spend money on expensive brandname handbags and cosmetic procedures. She came across as a very confident person. This is the Anfisa Arkhipchenko that the public got to know.
However, the 90 Day Fiance alum admits that she really isn’t that confident. Despite, the numerous pictures posted online. She still struggles her insecurities. In one post she writes “I’ve been feeling anxious in public thinking that everyone is looking at me and judging me.” It may seem like she doesn’t care what people think, but she does.
Struggles Without Jorge Nava
In February 2018, Jorge was caught with 293lbs of high-grade marijuana in his car. This led him to be arrested and charged. In September he was sentenced to two and a half years in prison. Currently he has around two years left on his sentence. The arrest and sentence was devastating for Anfisa. Since this meant she would be alone in America.
90 Day Fiance celeb admits that she has been struggling. She says “I have my bad days/weeks when I just don’t know what to do.” She no longer tries to pretend that everything is perfect, when it’s not. Anfisa Arkhipchenko wants to remind people that “it’s ok to not be ok.” She acknowledges that there is a problem. For her acknowledging the problem is the first step to solving it. It may not be easy not having her husband by her side. However, she is doing what she can to get through it all.
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